No cake, no
wedding. I suppose the wedding is off! Often times, enough, people tend to get
married for the “wedding day”. For all the glitz and glamour associated
involved for that one specific day. Less focus is directed on the actual union
of marriage. And people end up in miserable marriages, with partners whom they
cannot tolerate. Personally, I consider marriage as a sacred union between a
man and woman, joint together before God. It should be entered to lightly.
About 50% of marriages in many countries end
in divorce. The important question is why so many marriages fail? An important
reason for relationship failure is the discovery that there is a difference
between the assumed similarities and actual similarities Mynhardt, J.C., Baron,
R.A., Branscombe, N.R., & Byrne, D. (2009).
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so many people focus on the wedding day and not the marriage, this almost always leads to lots of tears and hurt feelings. the divorce rate in the states is really high and south africa is making up for lost time too. i think people sometimes are too afraid to say 'lets just wait a bit' so they make rushed decisions and that just ends up being a huge mistake
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